Fourth of July Brings Thoughts of Romance
Dear Uncle Sam, On this very important day in history there are so many things people are celebrating and so many ways people will celebrate. On this beloved day many are swept away with the love and honor and recognition they have for their country and for the many men and women who have paved … Read more
Is Love Ever Really Lost?
Dear Heartbreak, It’s amazing how easily I could dismiss the love that was lost as not meant to be but the heartbreak that continues to cling on seems inevitable. For some odd reason it was so easy to accept that the love just wasn’t what I thought the love was and even easier to accept … Read more
I Don’t Hate You but I Don’t Love You
Dear Heartache, There is this moment in a break up when we feel as if we are caught between two polar opposites. I don’t love you anymore but I don’t hate you, despite how many times I may have said this to you over the course of our long good-bye. Love is a Choice brought … Read more
Wait a Minute! I used to be a Capricorn!
Dear Zodiac #13, Welcome to the family. I deeply apologize that no one can seem to pronounce your name and everyone that has now switched from their old zodiac sign to Ophiuchus have simply been calling it the New Sign with a Greek Name. Cute. Astrology is such an interesting thing and I remember years … Read more
Unbearable Lightness
Dear Portia de Rossi, I picked up your book, put it down and have picked it up again several times which is quite unusual for me. I’m a voracious reader and always looking for a new book to read so the majority of the time when someone recommends a book to me I’m just so … Read more
30 Years Later
Dear God, Thank you for bringing me into this world. It has been an amazing 30 year journey and I look forward to all that the next 30 will bring and the 30 after that. My favorite story is the one my Godmother tells me each year and this year has been no different. 30 … Read more
A Romantic’s First Date
Dear Romance, Every now and then I let myself daydream a little and my true romantic nature comes out. As you know, I am a romantic by heart but a realist by nature so sometimes it feels good to daydream. Today I let my mind wander and I created the perfect first date to go … Read more
Things We Give Away
Dear Salvation Army, I’m just like any other New York Diva who has too much stuff and not enough closet space to hold it all in. Every year I do spring cleaning which is a refreshing opportunity to give away those things I don’t need and begin filling my closet with all new things that … Read more
Lydia Caesar’s Masterpiece
Dear Friends of Sunny, I haven’t done a post this personal and this reflective in awhile but I opened three emails this morning that touched, moved and inspired me in a way that brought to light in a major way the impact the people in my life have on me as an individual. The first … Read more
First Miracle
Dear Stinkin’, First Miracle I lay on my stomach prostrate before the Lord. My heart beating in perfect rhythm to the words of prayer that rapidly traveled across my lips, tears freely flowed down my cheeks as I sent up a special prayer, my mind firmly fixed on the image of a tender young baby … Read more



