365 Days of Non-Dates
Dear Sunny Readers, I first want to be clear that this is not and never has been a dating blog. In its most formal title it can be dubbed a lifestyle blog and in its truest form it is the true adventures of a Sunny California girl dropped in this strange country of Brooklyn. That … Read more
Stage 5 Clinger
Dear Male Species, I want to share something with you that I know at times you are vastly unaware of: NOT EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO MARRY YOU! I love my male counterparts but so often they walk through life interacting with every woman as if she only sees him in visions of being down on … Read more
He WAS Your Boyfriend
Dear Ladies, While my last post was a hit amongst the ladies and many of us found ourselves relating to it on some level there were many men who were not excited about the gender bias it showed. Much the same as Ntozake Shange stated in her the foreword of her most recent release of … Read more
She WAS Your Girlfriend
Dear John, There’s is a difference between a girlfriend and a girl you were just dating. There is an unwritten rule somewhere, somehow that says you have a bigger obligation to an amicable breakup than you do to maintaining peace with the woman you just went on a few dates with. Here are 5 things that might … Read more
What’s Love Got to Do with It?
I love you. I love you.I love you. It doesn’t matter how it’s said, where it’s said, when it’s said or why it’s said the words are the same but the meaning never is. So, what does ‘I love you’ mean and more importantly what’s love got to do with it? My best friend is … Read more
Bad Date #1113
Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? – 1 Corinthians 11:13 To be honest I had given little to no thought about this passage before the night I went on a date with a man that boldly brought it to my attention. You see, the … Read more
Why Are You Reading My Diary!?!
Dear Vanessa Williams, When I went to sleep last night I made sure to lock every door, close every window and I placed the pepper spray squarely on my bedside table in case any intruders should try to invade my home in the middle of the night. Yet, you still somehow managed to sneak in … Read more
Bad Date #30046 Continued
Dear Mr. Neiman Marcus, … Read more
Dinner with the Uncle
Dear Random Unborn Baby, I had dinner last night with your uncle. It’s so weird how things can so unexpectedly turn out. While I was at your baby shower I was making small talk and doing some minor networking with others in attendance. At one point I had gotten into a conversation with a young … Read more
