365 Days of Non-Dates
Dear Sunny Readers, I first want to be clear that this is not and never has been a dating blog. In its most formal title it can be dubbed a lifestyle blog and in its truest form it is the true adventures of a Sunny California girl dropped in this strange country of Brooklyn. That … Read more
New York Dating Guide and Romantic Attractions
<p>What could be a better way to spice up your date than a trip to “the city that never sleeps”? Perhaps you’ve just met someone from those ubiquitous online dating sites and are looking forward to a night (or day) chock full with excitement. New York, with its endless array of clubs, restaurants, concerts and … Read more
527 Free Hugs at AIDS Walk NYC
Dear Free Hugs, A little over a year ago a friend of mine and I were discussing the Art of Giving a Hug with another friend of mine whom I’ll call Carter for the purpose of this blog. We were giving Carter a hard time because his hugs were pathetic. I mean the kind of … Read more
Stranded on an Island with my iPod
Dear Apple, As I ran on the beach of Florida this past week I stopped for a moment to dip in the ocean and as I floated on my back further and further from the shore I started to dream and let my mind wander to what would it be like if I floated so … Read more
Kel Spencer uses his Pens to Empower
Dear Loved Ones, It is an absolute honor to bring you this guest blogger as he is doing what nestles perfectly into my heart. Kel Spencer has found the perfect way to combine his passion, talent and excellence in the music industry with his commitment, love and generosity for young people by creating an After School … Read more
Verizon Welcomes the I-Phone
Dear Verizon, You are amazing and I thank you so much for bringing the I-Phone to your network. I am anxiously awaiting the pre-release at 3am tomorrow and will continue to update you with minute-by-minute results of what this network has opened up for its customers. I got online right at 3am and ordered my … Read more
The Misconceptions about the Silly Rubberband
Dear Stubborn Belly Fat, I have tried so many ways to lose you and yet, like an unwanted stray cat you continue to return and at times stubbornly stay in place with no hope, promise or possibility of disappearing any time soon. You are the main reason I have to put a goal about losing weight … Read more
Bag Lady
Dear Erykah Badu, I did not come into this world celebrated by the world as a Black Nubian Queen, there may have been a silver spoon nearby but upon my tongue, beneath my lips it did not rest. As life has progressed and I have evolved I have become a beautiful, Black, independent, prosperous, talented, … Read more
5 Favorite People of 2010
Dear People of 2010, I resisted all day making a list of 2010 things. This is the time of year when you can find a list of just about anything that has happened in 2010. CNN has a list of 10 most intriguing people and put Antoine Dodson right up there with President Obama. Jillian … Read more





