365 Days of Non-Dates
Dear Sunny Readers,
I first want to be clear that this is not and never has been a dating blog. In its most formal title it can be dubbed a lifestyle blog and in its truest form it is the true adventures of a Sunny California girl dropped in this strange country of Brooklyn.
That being said, for the next 365 days I am going to be blogging about my non-dates. Each night I don’t go on a date I am blogging about all the reasons I am not going on dates. This can be anything from my slightly OCD personality (put away that shocked face, you know me), to my projection of how Black men struggle with a successful Black female in a position of influence (I know, I know…so cliche). There is a reason I’m not dating and a reason I have not dated seriously in 365 days so it’s worth spending the next 365 days doing one of two things: either getting into a relationship or figuring out what’s stopping me or what needs to be put in for me to be in a serious relationship.
My end goal in life: to be married with children.
My game starts tomorrow so in the meantime I’ll give you a little history so you can get caught up on what I’m up to in life and what has occurred over the past year. I broke up with my boyfriend, you know, the one I thought I would marry and have children with. The last relationship I was ever supposed to be in ended a little over a year ago. Crash and burn,
Months of heartache. A slight crush that ended in nothing. Months of soul searching. A summer fling. A fantasy come true. The here and now.
You’re all caught up so now I invite you to take this journey with me over the next year while I either start dating again or really drill down to all the reasons I’m not dating.
Love Always,
Sunny
