365 Days of Non-Dates
Dear Sunny Readers, I first want to be clear that this is not and never has been a dating blog. In its most formal title it can be dubbed a lifestyle blog and in its truest form it is the true adventures of a Sunny California girl dropped in this strange country of Brooklyn. That … Read more
Chasing Ray
Dear First Love, Life is no longer like a box of chocolates, I seem to now always know exactly what I’m going to get. I’m going to get a slightly different version of the first I’ve been chasing. I watch a lot of Criminal Minds- it’s my all time favorite Criminal show currently and one … Read more
Elijah Rock’d the Jazz Night in Hollywood
Dear Los Angeles, It never fails to amaze me how we can walk the streets of any city in the universe and have no idea who walks among us. Tuesday night I had the pleasure of uncovering another of Los Angeles’ prizes amid its trove of treasures. Every Tuesday my mother and I attend KJAZZ’s Hollywood and … Read more
Fourth of July Brings Thoughts of Romance
Dear Uncle Sam, On this very important day in history there are so many things people are celebrating and so many ways people will celebrate. On this beloved day many are swept away with the love and honor and recognition they have for their country and for the many men and women who have paved … Read more
Does Ex-Boyfriend Automatically Mean New Best Friend?
Dear Greg Behrendt, Naturally when I broke up with my boyfriend I lay in bed listening to Allure “All Cried Out”, eating ice cream and reading It’s Called a Breakup Because it’s Broken and I used your amazing words of wisdom to get me through what otherwise could have been a very difficult time of life. … Read more
Is Love Ever Really Lost?
Dear Heartbreak, It’s amazing how easily I could dismiss the love that was lost as not meant to be but the heartbreak that continues to cling on seems inevitable. For some odd reason it was so easy to accept that the love just wasn’t what I thought the love was and even easier to accept … Read more
Jagged Edge Releases The Remedy
Dear Brian, Brandon, Kyle and Wingo, Thank you for the release of your seventh album. I’ve been listening to you for the last 15 years and as I anxiously awaited The Remedy I couldn’t help but be excited because I knew it was going to be different than The Babymaking Project in that this would … Read more
All That Diva in One Little Cup
Dear Francine and Carinne, I thank you for digging back into 75 years worth of history and taking a concept that was amazing and didn’t quite work out the first time and transforming it into something that has worked since 2003 and works amazing! Women are slowly catching onto the concept of the Diva Cup … Read more
Stage 5 Clinger
Dear Male Species, I want to share something with you that I know at times you are vastly unaware of: NOT EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO MARRY YOU! I love my male counterparts but so often they walk through life interacting with every woman as if she only sees him in visions of being down on … Read more
New York Dating Guide and Romantic Attractions
<p>What could be a better way to spice up your date than a trip to “the city that never sleeps”? Perhaps you’ve just met someone from those ubiquitous online dating sites and are looking forward to a night (or day) chock full with excitement. New York, with its endless array of clubs, restaurants, concerts and … Read more


